LEADERSHIP - How to Achieve Excellence without Micromanaging Staff

leadership Jun 01, 2020
I received an email recently from a young orthodontist who had complaints from his staff that he was “always on their case”. Here’s an excerpt from the letter and my response:
 
Hey Rick,
Most recently I was approached by my office manager saying that the staff have come to her saying that they dread coming to work. Apparently, I am overly critical, and they feel like no matter what they do, they can never please me.
 
This is not the environment I want to foster for my employees. Certainly, I am always looking for ways to improve, better systems, and my desire for perfectionism could be considered on the high end. I do get frustrated when we have talked about systems and they miss stuff.
 
With some introspection, I think this is mostly a personal problem for me, but I don’t know how to handle it - change my desire for an incredibly high standard or relax a bit without feeling like the office is falling apart.
 
If you have any suggestions for how to work on this personally, or how to work on it with my staff, and how to make them feel like I am grateful and appreciative for their work, I’m all ears.
 
MY REPLY:
First, let me reassure you, that was ME during my first five years in practice. All is not lost.
 
Here are some quick thoughts:
  • You've already taken the FIRST STEP to become a better leader - you're willing to admit that YOU need to get better. (That alone took me years to realize.)
  • You’ll need to APOLOGIZE for "being on their case". Admit that you're new at this and you're still learning how to lead a practice and you need their help at getting better.
Here’s a quote from "What Got You Here Won't Get You There" by Goldsmith:
 
“An apology serves three purposes:
  1. First, it claims responsibility for past mistakes.
  2. Second, it announces your commitment to change
  3. Third, it works as an agreement between both parties. When you apologize, say the words, "I'm sorry. I'll try to do better." Then say nothing else! DO NOT qualify your behavior or make excuses for your actions.”
  • You said, "I do get frustrated when we have talked about systems and they miss stuff." Remember, when you're implementing a new system, you are changing a habit. So, training ALWAYS requires retraining.  BE PATIENT. My favorite phrases are – “Remember when we talked about . . . (then remind them of what was discussed)”. Or, “Next time, will you . . . (then describe the desired behavior).” No one can change the past, only do better in the future.
  • According to research, one NEGATIVE COMMENT requires 5-10 positive comments to make someone feel "back to normal" (so use them sparingly). Complements should be IMMEDIATE and SPECIFIC. It's not "good work". Rather, it's, "You handled that difficult child SO well. Thanks!" or "I really appreciate how you . . . (then mention the specific thing)."

  • You'll accomplish so much more thru a PARTNERSHIP with your staff than thru micromanagement.  Treat them as if they're your orthodontic residents and you're their faculty.  How would you treat them if this were true?  How were YOU treated when you were first learning orthodontics? Assume that they're doing the best they can at this moment. 

  • Recognize and encourage progress. Do set HIGH EXPECTATIONS, but also provide HIGH SUPPORT (which includes many supportive comments). Successful practice is a marathon, not a sprint!
Hopefully, that will get you started. Commit to going thru one whole day not getting upset. Then repeat it again the next day. And so on . . .
 
If you do mess up (and you will); don't beat yourself up. Go and immediately apologize. Say, “I’m sorry I treated you this way. You deserve better. I’ll try to be more patient in the future.” Full Stop! Don't make excuses or retrain her at that moment. It will only lessen the impact of your apology.
 
This is not about who's right; it's about building a relationship that works in the long term for the both of you.
 
All the best,
Rick

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